Teacher, every sentence that starts with ‘I can’t bear it’ has a heavy price for our children.
You frequently mention the problems encountered in business life, especially due to these issues. What would you like to say about this?
In many meetings with hundreds of people, “Why do you want your child to be happy?” I asked. The answer I get is mostly like “Let him be successful…, let him have a comfortable life…” In short, what is understood from happiness is “a comfortable life”.
Parents say, “Our children should not experience the difficulties we experienced.”
However, if those people see themselves as successful, they do not think that it was the difficulties they experienced that brought them to that point. This is what I say most commonly. And this is how children and young people whose psychological immune systems do not develop, who have been captured by the five-choice exam system and have been successfully poisoned, emerge, and even if these children study in these schools in the future, all the obstacles in front of them are removed by their mothers and fathers, mostly by their mothers, so they are left unprotected against the difficulties of life. . In a sense, it is like a classical vaccine injecting antibodies into the body by weakening them. Young people who do not face the difficulties of life and grow up in a protected environment become people who have a false and unreal “self-confidence” and believe that they have the right to everything, without any apparent reason. Why did I say fake? Because he believes that he will develop safe behavior if he acts by rot