The responsibilities of daily life and the necessity to live by constantly catching up with something in order to raise the standard of living disconnect people from their essence and reduce the quality of life. However, everyone who has reached their thirties knows that money can buy books but not information; it can buy sex but not love; it can buy watches but not time; it can find flattering friends but not friends; it can be a house that everyone envies, but this house cannot be turned into a home. We think that if we earn more money, we will live better, but we forget that the things we want the most are the things that money cannot buy. When families’ level of welfare increases, they long for a bigger house. Larger spaces increase the emotional distance within the house. Everyone starts living on their own screen, in their own room and in their own world, and over time, the emotional bonds of the family weaken. Gathering children around a table at mealtimes becomes a problem. Small houses are more suitable for giving the family a warm sense of home.
If success does not bring peace, it does not make anyone happy. Believing that you will be happy by achieving a position or a material result is like eating the bitter fruit at the top of a tree that you climbed with great effort and it will disappoint you. Success is an abstract concept and is related to the horizon a person looks at and the level they set their sights on. If you look above the line (status) you are at, you will see yourself as very worthless. On the other hand, if you look below the line you are at, you will see how many people among your neighborhood and school friends would like to be in your place.
It is possible to find peace in adulthood by being a mature person. For this, instead of pursuing an illusion such as “trying to be the best in the world”, it is necess